Five Critical Child Custody Mistakes

Of all of the important matters that need to be assessed and settled in a divorce, child custody can be the most sensitive and significant. It’s common for parents to enter this process with specific outcomes in mind—and to also be surprised how their own, seemingly unrelated behavior has undermined their goals. Let’s take a look at five most common child custody mistakes that occur during the divorce process. INSULTING YOUR SPOUSE IN PUBLIC (AND ONLINE) It’s normal to be on less-than-perfect terms with your spouse as you enter the divorce process, but when it comes to child custody, the court wants to see that you can encourage your child’s relationship with your co-parent. Badmouthing your spouse in public (including social media) does not indicate that you are ready to do this. COACHING YOUR CHILD If your child is old enough, the court will likely take their custody preference into consideration if parents cannot agree on arrangements. When doing so, the court is interested in the child’s genuine wishes, not rehearsed answers that one parent has primed their child to give. LIVING WITH A NEW ROMANTIC PARTNER It is not unheard of for one or both parents to already be moving on to other partners before their marriage is officially dissolved. Still, it is highly advised that parents refrain from cohabitation with these partners. The court wants parents to provide as much continuity to their child as possible– and living with new adults is not part of that continuity. MAKING PARENTAL DECISIONS ALONE In the middle of a divorce, it’s normal for a family’s routine to be somewhat upended while arrangements are decided and transitions are made. Still, it is important that parents continue to cordially collaborate on parental decisions. Making these decisions alone only demonstrates to the court that you are unwilling to participate in sharing parental responsibilities. BEING OVERLY AGGRESSIVE It is not in the court’s interest anymore to simply award custody to one parent and not the other. The court wants parents to continue to collaborate and share as many burdens and joys of parenting as possible. That is why clients who insist on sole custody—either to leverage bargaining or punish their spouse—will often find their demands rejected. If you are facing family law challenges, then the dedicated Sugar Land family law attorney at Audu Law Firm is ready to hear from you. Attorney Lilian Audu has committed her firm to providing compassionate and thorough family law and divorce counsel for individuals, couples, and entire families in need. Her communicative, client-centric approach means clients can rest assured that their counsel will proceed in a way that speaks to their every concern.You do not have to face this difficult time without a dedicated advocate. Contact the Audu Law Firm today for an initial case evaluation. ADDRESS 3 Sugar Creek Blvd Suite 100 Sugar Land, TX 77478 CALL TODAY 832-780-9005 FAX 832-442-4558 Sitemap | Privacy Policy Audu Law Firm This website has been built to be accessible for all users. If you experience any difficulty in accessing this website, please contact us for assistance.The information on this website is for general information purposes only. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create, and receipt or viewing does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship.